You want to be seen, heard, and accepted as lovable.
You keep winding up in the same dead end argument, leaving you feeling hurt, stuck, and alone….again.
You’re exhausted and burnt out by the words “we need to talk“. You feel close, and you don’t want petty arguments to ruin it.
You’re shocked and scared that you want to focus on your kids way more than you want to spend time alone with your partner.
HAPPY PARTNERS NEVER FIGHT?!
That can’t be right.
We HAVE to disagree sometimes, because committed partnerships need regular, safe emotional expression to re-create closeness. It’s when we don’t have a road map for safe vulnerability that we get into the weeds.
But you’re sick of fighting and that over and over again feeling that you’re misunderstood. Life is already hard enough; why can’t you just come home at the end of a long day and be accepted exactly as you are?
Well…you might be here because you need a NEW way to fight. Can’t agree on loading the dishwasher? You want to share finances but your partner wants separate accounts? You wish intimacy happened more often, but your partner feels overwhelmed and annoyed when you initiate? At Restoring Relationships, we can talk about why these issues come up, and how to use them as your pathway back to closeness and comfort with each other.
Partner & Marriage Therapy
How to get started: If you’re feeling disconnected, frustrated, or scared about your relationship and how it affects your family, let’s find some time to talk about what’s going on. I know what you’re going through, and I’ve helped many partners facing similar problems.